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 小麻烦处处的生活,会让你陷入“不舒服-自律神经失衡-影响身心-更不舒服”的恶性循环。这背后的科学原理就是自律神经受到影响,从而产生对身体和情绪的连锁效应。

自律神经是控制心脏、肠胃、血管的重要神经系统。当自律神经正常运行时,交感神经和副交感神经共同作用,身体舒展,心情顺畅,身体机能处于高度平衡,会感觉做什么都游刃有余,也能够充分发挥自身的实力。

本书就是据此提出:每天一点小习惯的调整,不断积累获得自律神经的极佳平衡状态,最终调整身心,助你每次都能全力发挥。

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身边物品整理:当开始翻找的时候,心已经乱了

找东西的时间,提前限定为十分钟

时间计划整理:假期制定一个“悠闲”计划,能过得更好

生活发生变化时,培养新的习惯和生活节奏


人际关系整理:

不出言评价别人,好坏都不要说

不轻易答应,免得增加自己的精神压力

需要忍耐的人脉是可以放弃的


像政客那样,采用缓慢、平静地表达方式


 身体调整:

多感知温度变化,避免身体被刺激


 食物调整:

时常更换酸奶种类,提高肠道内的菌群多样性

行为模式调整:睡前心中默念并感谢

记录下来自己的错误,最好及时记录

流程自动化遵循一件事法则,就是只规定好要做的一件事,不要把事件复杂化

没有一项工作可以被轻视

做事之前,先思考一下“为什么而做”,能把事情做得更好

找到适合自己的“休息方式”,不是累得不行了再去休息,而是有意识有计划的在一定时间为了调节身体状态休息。精神调节:不好应付的人打来电话,先放一放,想好了再回拨

看清愤怒背后的本质——不安,生活稳定、家庭美满、身体健康的人不容易生气发怒

用预演来帮助事情成功

越能干的人约不指望他人,换句话说,不要对别人有太多期待

自我调节:

活出自我不是完全与众不同、遗世独立,而是看清楚自己的类型

比起主张自己,迎合别人可能会让你更舒服的话,那就请拿出自信,做你自己

人生无可替代,忍耐并不是理所当然作      者   (日)小林弘幸出版日期 2024年3月

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